And, as much as I liked hearing myself talk, and seeing her nod, it was weird. But people stop acting like there is something so wrong with age disparity in relationships. My experience of online dating has been an eye opener. There is an unofficial rule that exists, even though nobody seems to know where it originated. Not having sorted out there own emotional or hormonal irrationalities.
His ad notes that he is not seeking women his own age. The chorus of righteous indignation, especially that arising from the fifty-something and sixty-something female set, is quite deafening. Many men feel women ignore this fundamental imbalance — that women, no matter what they earn, see having these options as their right via men who earn more , but that men have no such option. So no, not all women prize money over everything — I am testament to that, as are my friends. She has dated men anywhere from 3 years younger to nearly 20 years younger.
That woman that flew to Hawaii to be with me handled that question so much better. More and more are turning to women from other countries. Nothing like a young, hot body. Do you see her as your full-time , should you ever need her to be? Fortunately, not all women, or all men , think alike, or have the same desires and goals. My question is: How young is too young for a man in a new relationship? Even for women who maintain a size 4, satisfying sex after 50 can be difficult. Hence the fellow in this thread is talking about other cultures where the stigma does not exist. Aside from that scenario, however, is there any reason that a 30-year-old woman can find love with a 37-year old and not a 44-year-old? There are many … many … many threads on here about elderly men dating younger women.
Speaking from experience, not the horses mouth. Relationships are about compromise and give and take and that applies to finances too. I know most , if not all, of the women here, will be cheering you on, every bit as enthusiastically as they castigate any man who would dare do the same! But she is only a year older than my daughter at 37. Most of the older men who contact me are divorced and probably just looking to have fun. I have now found that I have a psychological hurdle to get over convincing myself to react positively when an attractive young woman shows that she is interested in me because there are so many in society constantly bombarding me with a message that it is all unrealistic nonsense.
But think about it: Would you like to be with a woman who is 90? I'm just not convinced that you have thought this through for the long haul and instead, are caught up in the romance of a new relationship. I said, Mom, they banned indentured servitude 200-plus years ago. Your friends are buying their first houses and having their first kids. Of course, it's also important to stay as healthy and fit as possible. You will learn your lesson the hard way. Most of the older men who have contacted me are gray and balding, paunchy and not at all attractive to me, a young, fit woman who is looking for a peer, a partner, as Evan stated.
If it costs me the same financially, sorry but younger women have more upside. Sorry, Dale, it just slipped out. It is shocking to see how many women only seek men who make who make 2x or more than what she makes. There are wonderful women available at those ages, accomplished, funny, smart, etc. They think I'm fun, and they can be cute, even beautiful. While I will agree with you that it will be more likely that a much younger woman same with much younger men will not be financially well off, but there are plenty who are financially solvent that date much older men.
I still have people sometimes ask me if I am in college — and I am 36. How long have you been dating him? Men find no shortage of younger women willing to marry to marry them, and vastly more willing to date, or enter into short term relationships. Same for men, but looking around, the men have the advantage here. About a year ago I met a very attractive and intelligent 22 year old woman at work who sought me for the financial security I could provide. I wonder if they will think they are being gross, or creepy? Why not rejoice in the years that were good.
Schwartz every Monday, Wednesday and Friday. If you meet a man who is out of shape, but he seems to have a lot of great qualities, see if you can get him interested in doing active things with you…as a friend. Women half my age are always hitting on me. As I see it, you have three options. Oh sure, there are some gold diggers out there, but to think that all women who marry an older man are just after his wallet and then will be sneaking out the window to meet up with a young stud…well if that is what you think, then you must have nothing but bad experiences in your life. Nowadays people are more career focused and are having kids in their 30s. Yet societal norms still exist.