If a man or woman for that matter can't see the value of experience and learned compassion of a person who's been through this battle then they don't deserve the chance to be a prospect for these girls! Since stage iv, I haven't dated or wanted to. Critelli demanded to have her breasts removed. The radiation made her skin too tight so she had to take more drastic measures to form breast. To spend my life with someone who had it in them to cheat while I was fighting for my life for myself and for my family! They are strong and overprotective of me, but have enough to deal with, me and starting their lives. We men feel the same as women when it comes to our bodies, by the way. I am so glad I found this thread - I will add it to my favorites! Maybe it's art history, cooking, computer programming, or learning a language.
It wonderful to meet a man like you. And the one person I really like, I am afraid to tell right away but imagine us getting intimate soon so how can I avoid it? If he does not treat you with respect now, you will be a doormat later. I think I am still in shock that he thought I was kidding. I am 42 years old and do not want to live the rest of my life without a special man by my side. His wife had been going through close to 2 years of dianoisge and recently another lump got affected. I had a few minor mishaps, during it but coming along well.
I felt terribly bad that i knew it aftet i had fallen for this man. I don't understand how someone who works in this field doesn't have a true understanding of what it is truly like to live a life the way those like myself have to live. She said just letting someone see her that she knew would not judge her in the way she now appeared and letting that first time she opened up be with a friend rather than someone she may not know how they would handle it let her prepare herself for whatever happend with him. I will then let her know my decission to leave. Good luck to you on your new journey. And that man will learn how lucky he is to have found such a strong woman with a huge giving heart.
It's not just about me and my experience. I guess after lumpectomy for large breasted women that look fine other than a bit of a scar, it would not be a big deal? I think I shocked a few men along the way. How does somebody bring up the subject of oh by the way I had a double mastecomy and these are reconstructed breasts. Please consult your healthcare provider with any questions or concerns you may have regarding your condition. If I was single I would come here looking for a woman that loves life and enjoys each day she has been given. Concerned about her image, she chose to undergo a procedure that would push the fat up from her stomach to form a lump of fat in place of her breasts.
And, I think this will prove what kind of man he really is. I know there are many good men out there, probably alot of them with insecurities of their own. Though I only had a lumpectomy, I have a 4 in. My lawyer says although I can move out of state , he will probably take me back to court knowing he will lose so she suggested me to wait till high school. Normally thats when the date gets uncomfortable and ends quicker and I never hear from them again. I have surgery scheduled to fix my lumpectomy defect with a bilateral lift at the same time later this month. I worry about taking Mx route too though bc of how it'd effect men and their reaction to be sexual if beautiful new boobs can't very well feel their touch or respond sexually to their touch.
When I told him about my discovery he said that I was crazy and we left to go to the event. I am just a die-hard optimist, I guess. I am in a slightly different situation, and orginally hesitated to respond since I am in a relationship, but I feel compelled to share with you the following with you and JustRenay: I started dating a man this past Jan. I haven't started my reconstruction yet, but the only people who have seen my scars are my husband who has now left me, my sister and my best friend. It doesnt make you less beautiful in my eyes.
She explained that to get nipples she would have to take some of her vaginal lining to recreate them. We try to bite every car that comes down the road. Else know in 2 weeks time we had to travel out on business trip tgt. There are plenty of people who will never get to have a life without cancer being involved in one way or another. If a man is so shallow that cancer or a disability bothers him then you don't want him anyway. Yes it hurts when people find out and they pull away, but like I was told, they are just not deserving of us. Holy I am sounding like a father again ha ha.
I had few boundaries to support me and the ones I had could be easily cast aside. Please consider that the way you feel now isn't necessarily how you'll feel in six months or a year. Let's keep our collective fingers crossed for those of us who haven't found what you and your husband have. I did not go through with the entire process, decided I did not want any more surgery and did not need the nipple, but wanted my clothes to look normal. Studies have shown that you are 80% more likely to be picked as a target if you walk around looking at the ground. I have let me ex husband see the to date progess and he says it is fine.
I confronted him and of course he denied it. She showed him the scar lining the length of her torso. I felt rejected, disrespected, and less than nothing by my ex husband. The first rule in dating after breast cancer is to make sure your partner cares about you as a friend before you reveal more than you're comfortable with. I dont know if it will go anywhere, and plan to just take one day at a time, but he was the first to not run.